Thursday, September 27, 2012

duit hantaran @ hantaran??kompiusss??


Guess I found this from my sis in law’s Facebook page…hhhmm 1K? are u kidding me? Nk mkn aper jew nnti? As I know definition for ‘duit hantaran’ is belanja kawin…tol x? well zaman mak ayah kter dulu bleh arr 1K tuh…dgn ekonomi kter skang cukup kew 1K tuh?aqiqah anak aku pon nk dkt 2K aper cer??klau arr stkt bwk sedara mara xsmpai 50 + 50 belah pompuan cukup arr kot…wat majlis kt masjid jew xyah sanding2 nih…mlenkn hantaran kawin…ala yg men dulang2 bbalas dulang nih…itu xwajib nk bg smpai 10 dulang…ikut kemampuan masing2 jew…klau xmampu stkt bg 2-3 dulang cukup arr…itu kter panggil adat…nk ikut boley xnk pon xper…tp aper org akan kater if kter wat majlis cenggitu??biaser arr mulut org nih kter xbleh nk tutup lg2 makcik2 yg kepochi nih…mesti ader suara2 sumbang ckp ‘klau xder duit tuh buat cara xder duit…dh gatal sgt nk kawen arr tuh’…haaa tuh yg xsdp nk dgr…klau arr keluarga kter xder org yg mulut camtuh alangkah bahagia tol hidup nih…gara2 xnk malu muler arr keluarga pompuan nih mnagih duit dr anak2 utk blanja kawen si adik/kakak@ jual brg kemas kew….wahai si LELAKI…sanggupkah anda tgk bakal mak mertua anda buat camtuh?so please consider bout this…and si pompuan pulak jgn nk hrpkn 100% duit lelaki n klau bleh tlg jgn nyusahkn mak bapa anda mlenkn derg bg korg 10K cash sbb klau derg xder duit muler arr minta sedekah kt anak2…is really happen…xkesian kew ngn mak bapak korg…bler anak2 kater xder duit jew menangis derg mmikirkn camner arr anak derg yg lg sorg nih nk kawen…yg si anak nih dok mdesak xsbr2 nk kawen…iyerlar 1st nk elak dr maksiat…mmg elok niat tuh tp ikut kemampuan yek adik2 klau duit xcukup(bkn xder duit) elok arr kter buat yg wajib dulu means kter nikah dulu kew...n si ibu menjawab ttg mahar...mahar means mas kawen...mas kawen tuh bkn kew dh ditetapkn di setiap negeri baper2...kew aku yg slh?hhmm just click the link and look at it:)

Ok now we move to 2nd story…this happen to my friend..ceta dier lebey kurg cam kt atas nih lar…1 day my friend nih bwk parents dier g jumper parents lelaki nih…alar maser raya…sajer nk knl2…pastuh dh smpai nih borak2 arr kosong…skali tber2 bleh pulak parents lelaki nih mntk nnti derg nk kawen jgn mntk tnggi sgt…aper cer tuh?ceta nih dh lamer actually tp bler tnmpk gmbr kt atas nih can relate skit2;)…actually xbaper elok sgt permulaan perkenalan dh terus serang org camtuh…kter sbg tuan rumah kena arr hati2 skit…nih blum kawen lg..kang dh kawen muler mntk mcm2…mesti org dh pk len kn…n lg 1, kter sbg tuan umah kena arr ader kt dpn lyn tetamu tp bleh pulak derg nih ddk kt dapur biar bakal besan nih kt dpn tecengang…the sad part derg ddk dapur bleh pulak mkn2…hish 1 permulaan xbek arr…klau aku dh kena reject awal2 dh…tp member aku nih dh angau tlebey kt lelaki nih…so keluarga dblkg kn arr…haish dunia2…kter harus arr beri keutamaan kt keluarga kter dulu terutama mak n bapak…klau arr 1 hari derg dh xder baru meraung n nyesal x abis…actually my friend nih pon 1 of my inspiration to expose her life in my blog…saperkh dier??biarlar rahsia…saper tgigit cili dier teraser pedasnyer…bye2 n assalamualaikumJ peace yo!!


Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Suara cicit Tunku Abdul Rahman - Sharyn Lisa Shufiyan

This article has trigger me to write on my blog...how nice if my mom still around and when i show this to her she will explained from A-Z how we won on the Independent Day...what happen on 13th May...everything she will repeated the same story she told me previously and at the end she will give her opinion...but now she is with the creator ALLAH SWT and no one can tell me bout Malaysia history anymore...well said, i hate history... surprising me i passed for this subject in my SPM;)..well i saw this in sumone's Facebook pg and sharing it at his wall...i only can said that i hv no comment on this just appreciate wut ever u hv and just remember ur creator...well if you want to know what hv she wrote on this page here you are;

she is the great-grandchild of Tuanku Abdul Rahman...our 'Bapa Kemerdekaan'...i dont know her anyway


she wrote this...

Both my parents are Malay. My mum’s heritage includes Chinese, Thai and Arab, while my dad is Minangkabau. Due to my skin colour, I am often mistaken for a Chinese.

I’m happy that I do
n’t have the typical Malay look but I do get annoyed when people call me Ah Moi or ask me straight up “Are you Chinese or Malay”

Like, why does it matter? Before I used to answer “Malay” but now I’m trying to consciously answer Malaysian instead.

There’s this incident from primary school that I remember till today. Someone told me that I will be called last during Judgement Day because I don’t have a Muslim name. Of course, I was scared then but now that I’m older, I realise that a name is just a name. It doesn’t define you as a good or bad person and there is definitely no such thing as a Muslim name. You can be named Rashid or Ali and still be a Christian.

I’ve heard of the 1Malaysia concept, but I think we don’t need to be told to be united. We’ve come such a long way that it should already be embedded in our hearts and minds that we are united. Unfortunately, you can still see racial discrimination and polarisation. There is still this ethno-centric view that the Malays are the dominant group and their rights must be protected, and non Malays are forever the outsiders.

For the concept to succeed, I think the government should stop with the race politics. It’s tiring, really. We grew up with application forms asking us to tick our race. We should stop painting a negative image of the other races, stop thinking about ‘us’ and ‘them’ and focus on ‘we’, ‘our’ and ‘Malaysians’.

No one should be made uncomfortable in their own home. A dear Chinese friend of mine said to me once, “I don’t feel patriotic because I am not made to feel like Malaysia is my home, and I don’t feel an affinity to China because I have never lived there.

I know some baby Nyonya friends who can trace their lineage back hundreds of years. I’m a fourth generation Malaysian. If I am Bumiputra, why can’t they be, too? Clearly I have issues with the term.

I think the main reason why we still can’t achieve total unity is because of this ‘Malay rights’ concept. I’d rather ‘Malay rights’ be replaced by human rights. So unless we get rid of this Bumiputra status, or reform our views and policies on rights, we will never achieve unity.

For my merdeka wish, I’d like for Malaysians to have more voice, to be respected and heard. I wish that the government would uphold the true essence of parliamentary democracy. I wish for the people to no longer fear and discriminate against each other, to see that we are one and the same.

I wish that Malaysia would truly live up to the tourism spin of Malaysia truly Asia. Malaysians to lead – whatever their ethnic background. Only ONE NATIONALITY MALAYSIAN. No Malays, No Chinese, No Indians – ONLY MALAYSIANS…Choose whatever religion one is comfortable with.


*i just copy n paste from that page...is it true or not she wrote this, wallahuAllam...


Tuesday, September 25, 2012

++LEMBBSSS++

hv no idea y this morning their server get jammm...mayb sbb org dh gaji kot...tp aku xgaji lg...camner tuh??pg2 dh wat org nek hanginnn..haisshhh


haaa tgk tuh...baru kol baper kot...